Looking to Plan a Micro Wedding? Here’s How to Make it Unforgettable
What is a Micro Wedding?
The world of weddings has shifted in big ways since 2020. While some trends have faded, one movement we’ve been thrilled to see not just stick around, but thrive, is the micro wedding.
Defined by websites like The Knot and WeddingWire as celebrations with 50 guests or fewer, micro weddings offer couples a more personal, intimate experience. And when you scale down your guest list, you open the door to elevate the details that matter most — from unforgettable food and craft cocktails to stunning, thoughtful atmospheres.
It’s no wonder micro weddings continue to rise in popularity. They give you the freedom to focus your budget on luxury touches and meaningful moments, without the pressure of a 200-person guest list.
Why Micro Weddings?
Smaller weddings are naturally less stressful. Fewer people means fewer logistics to manage, fewer personalities to juggle, and less chance of drama.
But if we’re being completely honest, your wedding day is only as stressful as you allow it to be. No matter the size of your guest list, you deserve to feel calm, joyful, and fully present.
That said, logistically speaking, fewer guests = fewer headaches. Think about the last time you tried to plan a dinner or weekend trip with a big group of friends…it’s like herding cats, right? Trimming your guest list ensures you’re not fielding complaints from Aunt Susan’s best friend you haven’t seen since you were a toddler about her distaste for outdoor weddings.
It also shifts your perspective. A micro wedding lets you focus on the people who are actively part of your life and cheering you on. Fewer guests usually means fewer unnecessary dramas and more genuine, meaningful connections.
Another huge benefit? Your budget per person increases while your total event cost can actually decrease. That floral installation you loved but couldn’t justify for a 95-person guest list? With 30 guests, you might be in a smaller space and still get that luxe wedding vibe. Those personalized touches you shelved when expenses piled up? Now they’re worth revisiting.
Paring things down allows you to prioritize what matters most to you — whether that’s an incredible dining experience, live music, or an unforgettable atmosphere filled with candlelight and conversation.
Elevating the Experience with Bespoke Catering
Can we get honest about the food at weddings? For many couples, it lands near the bottom of the list when it comes to what guests remember, yet it’s one of the biggest expenses.
This is typical of large-scale catering, where food is made for the masses rather than crafted as part of a memorable dining experience. And it’s not just a wedding problem, it’s an industry problem. But it doesn’t have to be this way.
Custom, chef-driven menus are a labor of love. They require time, creativity, and care, which often makes them impractical for events with guest lists of 100 or more. But when you start planning a micro wedding, those bespoke culinary experiences suddenly feel within reach.
Imagine sitting down to a multi-course menu where every dish represents a milestone in your relationship. Or treating your guests to a tasting menu experience typically reserved for Michelin-starred restaurants. Everything on the table is seasonal, organic, and made not only from the highest quality ingredients but with genuine care, passion, and heart.
At Parish Events, we believe your wedding menu should tell your story. We take time to get to know you as a couple, learn what flavors and memories matter most, and build a custom menu that reflects those details. Then, we invite you to a private tasting to fine-tune every element and ensure your big day is everything you imagined, and then some.
Craft Cocktails that Tell a Story
Craft cocktail bars at weddings aren’t the norm, but they should be. A well-made drink can elevate a celebration, create memorable moments, and offer your guests an experience they’ll be talking about long after the last dance.
At Parish Events, we believe every cocktail should be crafted with care. Whether you’re selecting one of our classic bar packages or building a fully custom menu, your guests will be sipping on drinks made with fresh, high-quality ingredients, hand-cut clear ice, and thoughtful, precise technique.
When it comes to micro weddings, the beauty is in the details. A smaller guest list means you can lean into those extra touches that turn a great celebration into an unforgettable one. Custom his-and-hers (or theirs-and-theirs) cocktails inspired by your love story, themed bar installations, or even personalized ice stamps that you get to take home after the party — it’s these unexpected luxuries that truly set your wedding apart.
And here’s the thing: these kinds of elevated, memorable bar experiences aren’t just for micro weddings. They translate beautifully to larger events too. But with a smaller guest count, your budget stretches further, making those indulgent details feel within reach.
Planning Services That Handle it All
Planning a wedding, even a micro one, involves a lot of moving parts. And while a smaller guest list might mean fewer dinner plates and chairs, it doesn’t necessarily mean fewer logistics. From vendor coordination and timeline management to layout design and guest experience planning, there are still countless details that need to come together seamlessly for the day to feel effortless.
That’s where an experienced event planner makes all the difference.
At Parish Events, we’re more than just caterers and bartenders. We’re full-service event planners who understand how to turn your vision into reality while taking the stress off your plate. Whether you’re hosting an intimate dinner party, a chic backyard wedding, or transforming a unique venue into a one-of-a-kind ceremony space, we handle it all, so you can actually enjoy the day you’ve spent so much time dreaming about.
One of the biggest perks of micro weddings is the freedom to choose spaces that feel personal and meaningful to you. No ballroom minimums, no cookie-cutter packages. We love helping couples reimagine private homes, family properties, parks, and unconventional venues into stunning wedding backdrops. And because we offer everything from planning and catering to craft bar services under one roof, you’re working with a single team that knows your event inside and out.
The result? A wedding that feels deeply personal, beautifully executed, and stress-free. Exactly how it should be.
Ready to Plan Your Micro Wedding?
At the end of the day, your wedding should be a reflection of you — your relationship, your story, and what matters most to you both. Micro weddings offer the freedom to focus on what feels meaningful, to splurge where it counts, and to leave the rest behind.
Whether that means an intimate dinner under the stars, a backyard celebration filled with candles and laughter, or a modern gathering in a one-of-a-kind venue, Parish Events is here to help make it unforgettable.
From bespoke catering and craft cocktail bars to full-service planning and coordination, we handle every detail so you can be fully present for every moment. If you’re ready to start planning your dream micro wedding, we’d love to hear your story.
Let’s raise a glass to celebrations worth remembering.